KEN ASHLEY
A
TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING
I am
part of a social group of foreign nationals living in and around Pedralba, a
pueblo in the Campo north-west of LLiria, Valencia, Spain. We are a group that
is always keen to integrate within the Spanish community, and to a large degree
we have achieved that as evidenced by the number of Spanish nationals impacted as well.
We are
all living in the third stage of our lives that is made all the more pleasant in
that we get to enjoy the sunshine and the life that is available to us in this
part of Spain. However, we are perfectly aware that from time to time we have
to draw strength to say goodbye when it is time for one of us to pass. We are
now having to draw deep to pay our respect and to express our love for a
stalwart who has added so much to our daily lives.
Ken Ashley, a retired
fireman, after spending a life in service to others has continued to do that
while in retirement. Our Ken was a big man, both in stature and in personality.
He lived a responsible life and he was generally thought of as the go-to guy when
something needed to get done.
He was
possessed of a pleasing singing voice, and together with his guitar he was
always there when we needed cheering up. One of the contributions the English
language group made to the pueblo was to stage two concerts a year; one at Christmas
and one during the summer. The choir was originally led by Nigel, our president at the time
and when it became necessary for him to step down Ken took up the baton and did
a splendid job.
He could
often be seen going walkabout with his friend, Megan, an extraordinary dog while wearing his
trademark extra large cowboy hat. He was the very image of health and strength
and the one person we thought would live forever. However, on Thursday, 29th
March he arose from bed and commented to his wife, Heather that he really didn’t
feel all that well, and with one gasp he fell down between the bed and the
wall, and he was gone.
I like
to think that Ken had things to do, people to see, places to go in his next
life. I am a staunch believer that what we call death is not the end, but
rather simply the moment when we discard our existing body that no longer works
as well as it did to exchange it for another new body to start the process all
over again. He will think it’s all new, just as he has done every time before
when he has lived and “died.” That is possible because our bodies do not have a
soul, but rather it is our soul that has a body.
So, Ken,
I thank you for everything you did to contribute to my life, and that was much,
and I join with everybody else in our group in saluting you for being the
wonderful key figure you have been. I have only ever known you to be pleasant and
courteous, and I carry with me your mantra: “Hey man, what’s your plan?”
People
may ask me how many years did you spend among us in total and I would have to
say I have no idea of what your age might have been. My impression is that you
were, and will be, “Forever Young!”
KEN ASHLEY, we shall never forget you!
Copyright
© 2018
Eugene
Carmichael